Volume 4, Issue 6
March 7 - April 3, 2002
by Stephanie Glenn
Dear Stephanie,
Sometimes when I am extremely aroused I can't ejaculate. I have no problem with this as
I'm experiencing waves of pleasure that go on and on because I get so hot. My girlfriend can't
seem to understand this. She seems to think that she is somehow to blame, or that I don't think
she's sexy enough. I'm feeling like I have to cum every time to please her. What should I do?
--Forced to Perform
Dear Forced,
I say a man who, from time to time, cannot ejaculate is a rare find! Who cares if your girlfriend
doesn't understand it, what she really needs is to appreciate it. Besides the obvious reason of
you being able to pound away for as long as she can take it, you need to point out to her that she
is getting all that pleasure without the sticky, icky mess. Here is a poem you can present her to make
her see it our way --you know how gooey women get when they receive poetry....
One less sheet to clean
No more oozy stains in your jeans
No chance of fertilization of your precious eggs
Never again to feel dripping down the inside of
your legs
No thick throat, no spitting, no aftertaste
No extra protein to expand your waist
So you see I'm better that most chocolate brands
I won't melt in your mouth or your hands
How can she possibly resist this? If for some crazy reason she is still having a problem with your gift, then you will probably have to learn how to fake it.
Dear Stephanie,
My boyfriend keeps on my case about having
anal sex. I'm not inhibited, but I'm afraid to try it with him. He is 9 and a half inches long and
over 6 inches around and I'm afraid he will rip me in two. Sometimes he uses his finger and that
feels really good, but his huge monster scares me. What can I do to prepare myself for this?
I'm afraid if I don't do it he will find someone else who will.
--Happily Sealed
Dear Sealed,
I receive so many letters from women, just like you, who have had the same requests from the
heavy hitters. Aren't there any mini-weenie guys out there who like anal sex? It always seems that
the huge guys are the ones begging and pleading for it. They can beg all they want, some areas are
just off limits for me.
If it's something you want to do for him, then I suggest that you start getting warmed up. Go and buy some sex toys, namely anal toys of varying sizes. Whenever you have sex or masturbate, make sure you use these devices and don't forget the lube! As you become more accustomed to this, you may find that the orgasms are more intense. When the time finally comes, lube it up really well and tell him to be gentle. Also, make sure you have a dildo for other areas so that you have that double stimulation going on. It's possible you will find that you actually enjoy it and your boyfriend will be one happy man. But because he is a man, don't think that it will necessarily keep him from straying. And certainly don't do it just because you want to keep him. One more thing, fair is fair, so when you are purchasing your sex toys, be sure to get one about his size to use on him. Then after he is done with you, make it a point to return the favor. You don't want to be selfish, do you?
Dear Stephanie,
I don't know how to thank you for the tip on the VIGEL. I ordered some after reading your
praise of it and have had mind blowing orgasms since. It doesn't matter if I use it alone or with
my husband, it always delivers. My problem is, I feel I could become dependent on it. I used to be
addicted to a vibrator that had super speeds that my husband couldn't come close to matching.
Will the same happen with VIGEL? Will I not be able to have orgasms without it?
--Multiple Mary
Dear Multiple Mary,
As far as addictions go, there are worse ones to have! Try and use the VIGEL every other time
and see what happens. I think you will still have those intense orgasms because you have
learned how to go deeper, a common result of using VIGEL. Some people need to use lube and
condoms every time they have sex, so why not add one more incredible thing to make it that much
better. Just enjoy those "mind blowing" orgasms and feel blessed that you are not in the 70 percent
of women who aren't getting them! For those of you who would like more info on VIGEL, go to
www.100sexsecrets.com .
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